Early Ejaculation Pregnancy hindering?
Healthy Lifestle June 16th, 2010
“We’ve been married 10 years, but until now no children. 42-year-old husband, I am 38 years old.
Husband experienced premature ejaculation, so I rarely achieve satisfaction when intercourse. Although not satisfactory, I remain willing to have intercourse 1-2 times a week because they still want to be pregnant.
My question is, whether because of premature ejaculation, and rarely feel satisfied, I am not pregnant until now? I’ve check to some specialists, but no avail. The doctor just advised me to wait. Until when to wait, while we continue to grow old? “
Hospital, Makassar
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Pregnancy is only possible if you take her eggs fertilized by male sperm cells. Conception is only possible if sexual relations conducted in the woman’s fertile period. Sexual relations outside the woman’s fertile period will not result in fertilization and pregnancy.
Conception is more apt to occur if the husband’s state of fertility and good wife, and not susceptible to interference in the reproductive system. Conversely, if the fertility of disturbed and impaired reproductive system, the pregnancy experience obstacles, perhaps even can not occur.
Premature ejaculation does not reflect the presence or absence of fertility problems. There is no relationship between premature ejaculation with a man’s fertility conditions. That is, a man who experienced premature ejaculation, fertility may be normal. In contrast, men who do not experience premature ejaculation, fertility may be affected, even sterile, so that can not produce a pregnancy.
Fertility disorders
Experienced premature ejaculation is not the cause of your husband is not pregnant, even after 10 years of marriage. Unless that premature ejaculation occurs relatively heavy, so that no sperm entering through the vagina.
Men who suffer from severe premature ejaculation, ejaculate before penis into the vagina. So, during ejaculation occurs in the vagina may be impregnated remain, both fertility and long on your side there is no interference.
Similarly, although you rarely have an orgasm. Orgasm does not contribute to the occurrence of conception and pregnancy. So, even if you never or rarely reach orgasm, pregnancy can still occur.
The problem is, is there any fertility problems or obstacles in your reproductive system and her husband, so until now you have not pregnant? Should be the result of what you have experienced, when complete, it can be concluded disorder what happens to you and your husband.
This means that you and your husband should be checked with the correct and complete to make a conclusion whether or not interference. Only then can be done step treatment or appropriate action.
However, there are certain circumstances that can not be addressed again. For example damage to the testicles so that spermatozoa can not be produced at all or damage to the ovaries so the egg can not be produced.
Would you still be pregnant or not, depending on the extent to which disturbance occurs, either to yourself or a husband. Hopefully the results that once you do complete enough, so you can ask for another explanation to the doctor who examined you.
If there are no fertility problems to yourself or a husband, can not be a pregnancy does not occur in this long time.
Being a Blood Donor pride and Lifestyle
Healthy Lifestle June 9th, 2010
donate blood should be proud. Because talking about the donor is talking about humanity.
Similarly Chairman expressed the Indonesian Red Cross (PMI) and former Indonesian Vice President M Jusuf Kalla, on Friday (5 / 2) at the Office of PMI Surabaya. “Donors must be the pride and lifestyle, such as for students who do not donate blood for example, well behind,” he explained.
As the appreciation for the blood pendoror who has done hundreds of times a blood donor. PMI was talking about a plan giving the award form. As a discourse, the donors who had donated blood more than 100 times will mendapatka n relief financing if at any time in the hospital sick.
We’re still going to talk about it because even though hundreds of times donation, the donor remains healthy lho. Some even donate up to 130 times but healthy too. The principle is the voluntary donors, said Kalla.
In this year, PMI expects to increase capacity up to 50 percent of donors. While the number of blood donors nationally who reach 1.7 million in 2009 will be increased to 3 million in 2010, and 4 million in 2011
Internet addicts are people Stress?
Healthy Lifestle May 17th, 2010
not just to find the latest news, reading books, paying electricity bills, to vent with friends in other parts of the world can now easily be done using the internet facility.
I think, our lives can not be separated from the Internet. In fact, waking up too did the first time is to open the Internet to update the status on the social networking site.
However, watch out when your time surfing in cyberspace is already in the addiction zone. Latest study showed that 1.2 percent of people who are addicted to the internet tended to get depressed. This conclusion is generated based on a survey conducted online of 1310 internet users.
Respondents in the survey aged 16-51 years. They questioned the duration of Internet usage and purpose. The respondents were also given a series of questions to see if they suffer from depression.
Researchers found that the number of respondents have a high urge to surf to shift the social life in the real world. They prefer to communicate through social networking sites or chat rooms. As many as 1.2 percent of respondents considered the Internet addict. They interact more in social networking sites, gambling or porn site.
Chief researcher Dr Catriona Morrison, said that in this modern world the internet holds a very important role, but accompanied by the dark side. Internet junkies depression is more vulnerable than ordinary Internet users.
“Many Internet users are more easily take care of bills, reply to e-mail, or shopping. However, they also claim hard to limit the time to use the internet to disrupt the real life,” he explained.
Morrison reveals, is not known whether excessive Internet use causes depression, or they are depressed people who submerge themselves in cyberspace.
DrVaugn Bell of the Institute of Psychiatry at King’s College London said, by definition, people who “Internet addiction” was emotionally depressed. Thus, he argues that the results of this study are not surprising.
This study reinforces previous studies which stated that people affected by stress or anxiety tend to use the Internet more often than people who emotionally stable. According to experts, the way someone in socializing will impact on mental health.
“The Internet addicts began to lose the meaning of friendship because replacing them with virtual friends on social networking. This may affect their mental health,” said Sophie Corlett of Mind Mental Health Charity.
He added, socialization should be done through face-to-face activities, and direct interaction is one factor that makes our mental state is always in good health. After all, humans are social beings.
Apart from Internet Pornography Snare
Healthy Lifestle April 26th, 2010
“I just realized that I was not happy in your work and relationships with other people. I am using pornography as an escape.”
Closing her eyes are getting tired, Jason McClain turned off his computer. In the middle of the night, employees in the IT section and glanced at the clock which was three o’clock in the morning. On the day that Jason actually worked from morning until noon. But he was transfixed for hours in front of the monitor into the night just to look at porn sites on the Internet.
Since I was a school, Jason was already addicted to the naked pictures. Jason is not alone, many other men who became victims of internet pornography. About six percent of people in the UK population reported having problems with one of these forms of sex addiction.
Penchant for staring at pictures or movies on the internet seronok long run a bad influence for Jason. Such a strong desire to enjoy pornographic pictures and impressions to make social relations continue to deteriorate. Lucky, Jason has now been recovered and returned to normal life. He was able to escape from bondage, thanks to Internet pornography in running kedisipilinannya strict recovery program.
Jason even now become a counselor trained to help cure addicts of pornography. Admittedly, in recent years sharply increased the number of men who mentally damaged by the pressure of pornography. Among his clients now, Jason discovered there are some customs in accessing pornography:
- He sacrificed his day off to indulge a desire to access pornography.
- Men sacrificing social hibungan with friends or family just to enjoy pornography
- Men terobesi with someone and meeting with them is seen as the potential to create sexual fantasies or pornography.
“I remember when I was a teenager pornography has always had a magical attraction. When I started working in IT seven years ago, the attraction bounce back because they can be accessed via the internet. If I have free time on weekends and there’s no chance the schedule, all the sessions turned into pornography. I could spend two or three hours at the time, staring at the computer screen charm.
“Time will evaporate just like that and I would wonder what I did. After that, as there is something missing, and trying to cope with back access some sites like opium. It’s like a circle of despair and many men who can survive up to 3 hours or 4 am to satisfy his habit, “he explained.
Adverse
In addition to addiction, pornography can indeed lead to adverse effects, as revealed from the survey of the therapist who conducted the BBC Radio One. As many as 74 percent of the therapist said that the use of excessive Internet pornography became a common cause of deterioration of relations.
For Jason alone, the statistics are not surprising. According to him, many women who know their partner becomes addicted to pornography was devastated. “There is great anger and doubts that he could never imagine at all. The relationship I was a mess, and pornography will certainly play a role that failure,” he said.
Jason admitted fear of pornography addiction trend will continue so that many more men trapped in a fantasy.
“I call it ‘glasses porn’, but rather the term may be ‘objectification’. This happens when the man began to absorb the message that is sent pornographic. They crossed the line mengobyektifikasi person. This is not to appoint a woman in a bar and thought that he pulled. Each person is evaluated as an object. If you’re in the supermarket, you see people who are sexually management assessed. When you reach the stage infatuasi or crazy, there’s something not right. A relationship is also under pressure because someone started mengobyektifikasi partner, “he said.
Will need large
Other facts also show that 70 percent of pornography surfing activities conducted during work hours. In 2004, a survey in England revealed that seven out of 10 companies to fire employees who access pornography in the workplace. “In many workplaces, pornography is a serious problem. This shows how some people are desperate to see it. They are willing to risk his job for an instant sensation, “says Jason
For Jason, to stop the bad habit will require a large and strong determination. But the most important part of this healing is to determine what is the main cause of this addiction problem.
“I have a psychology background and when I analyze what happened, I realized that I was not happy in your work and relationships with others. I am using pornography as an escape. These pictures I divert from the real world, and made my escape from the problems in my life. For most men, it replaces the socialization, grabbing and destroying the relationship, “he explained.
Jason also has important advice for the men who feel themselves addicted to pornography. First, try to discuss this issue with people who understand you. Second, make a solid schedule in your daily activities and the third contact a trained counselor to determine and find out why this has been twisted addiction you.
“Make sure you are motivated to overcome this addiction because if not, there’s no way for you to succeed. I realized, my subconscious plan to make every night and weekend free conditions so that I can online. Therefore, go out to do something and stick to a strict bedtime. “Hold your habit is a bad idea. You need the help of close friends to discuss. With free Internet service and ease of pornography, do not be surprised if he becomes interested in hearing advice from a professional would be ideal because it can determine what the cause of addiction. When what is happened to you is revealed, it will give you a new perspective, “said Jason.
Study: Routine exercise Maintain Memory
Healthy Lifestle November 14th, 2009
Exercising regularly helps people stay healthy physically and mentally sharper when entering old age, so the results of four studies published in the Archives of Internal Medicine, Washington, Monday (26/1/2010).
One study found that women who exercise during midlife-defined median age of 60 years by researchers at the Harvard School of Public Health, Brigham and Women’s Hospital, and Harvard Medical School, has a smaller chance after a 70-year-old for chronic disease, heart surgery or physical, and mental disorders or retention.
One other study found that the stretching training a year, one or two times per week, increase the attention of women middle-aged and the ability to resolve conflicts.
The third study found that adults aged 55 years and older who engage in physical activity or higher were less likely to face for impaired cognitive resources than their peers who mostly sat.
And women aged 65 years or older who participated in an exercise program for 18 months seems to have denser bones and lower risk for falls compared with women in the same age who lack the program “fitness” is active, according to a fourth study .
The findings of that study, conducted in Canada, Germany, and the United States, may be is what the doctors were instructed to make the U.S. more people exercising, said study author first.
“Because the American people grow old quickly, and almost a quarter of Americans do not engage in any leisure time, our findings seem to support the federal guidelines regarding physical activity to promote health among older people and well-being with age,” said the author of the study.
“The idea that physical activity can boost survival more successful than just adding age may give a very strong reason for people to start a physical activity,” they saidBeware of Depression Symptoms
Tuesday, February 2, 2010 | 14:39 pm
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KOMPAS.com – Many people with depression received less treatment because the patient is generally less recognized symptoms of depression. In fact, depression not only affects the mental condition of a person but also can lead to physical complaints. Even the man who left complaining of depression can affect erection ability.
In some people, symptoms of depression is only recognized as the emergence of moody nature. In fact, when examined depression always have signals arise though sometimes drowned. There’s a good idea to recognize the signs when the stress was entered in the appropriate zone aware.
First, psychological symptoms such as irritability, feeling himself unworthy, pessimistic. Depressed people also often experience physical symptoms of headache, fatigue, loss of appetite or excessive, nausea, stomach complaints, diarrhea.
Meanwhile behavioral symptoms to watch is losing interest, moody, difficult to concentrate. restless, easily distracted, feel helpless, and began to pull away from their daily activities.
